Chung: Retired Air Force colonel helps seniors make the rounds - By L.A. Chung
In the go-go Cold War era of the 1960s, Ben Dooley controlled spy satellites in their surreptitious orbits, a “lucky assignment” that brought him to California and inside the Air Force’s big “Blue Cube” at the Satellite Test Center in Sunnyvale.”We were supporting about 200, 250 satellites, anything from weather to reconnaissance,” the retired colonel said of his work at what is now the Onizuka Air Force Station. “People don’t realize how busy it was.”
These days, though, Dooley’s adrenaline rushes come from another sort of juggling act:
As one of the 34 volunteer drivers for Road Runners, El Camino Hospital Auxiliary’s ride service for seniors, Dooley navigates an ever-demanding set of logistics, to ferry around seniors - some of them quite frail - one by one, in this car-dependent valley. For a growing number of residents who cannot, or should not, drive, Dooley and his fellow volunteers are a lifeline.
“One day we had 103 calls - we were busy,” said the 79-year-old, who, with 19 years logged this month, is the longest-serving volunteer for Road Runners. “When people get older you need to have something that gets your adrenaline going. With this job, when it’s busy, you’re wondering, ‘Am I going to make it to the appointment?’ That keeps you younger.”
In cars bearing the signature desert bird logo, Dooley crisscrosses the northern and western sides of Santa Clara County, logging as many as 160 miles in a day, taking nuns,
geologists, widows, retired judges, cancer patients and others to their appointments. Whether dialysis or chemotherapy sessions, or hair salon trips or grocery errands, or even visits with spouses in care homes, all are vital in their own way.But there’s something else about these trips, in between the walks to the car (and a steadying arm if needed) and the drives through long suburban blocks and curving hillside lanes: Conversation. Human kindness. A little socialization.
“This is a great program,” he said. “We see people at home and they have no way to get out.”
Good listener
Among the regulars, Dooley knows their spouses’ names, their kids’ names, their pets’ names. He knows how they met their husbands or wives, and when that was. He knows which kids have done well, which ones haven’t. He listens attentively when riders voice their fears, disappointments and small blessings.
On the way back, he might ask, in his soft Virginia drawl, how a session went, if they want to talk about it.
He’s noticed their absence when they become too sick to go out, and takes time to reflect when word comes of a client’s passing.
He’s also willing to do more than drive. Last month, he picked up a 92-year-old woman in Palo Alto clutching a vase of flowers. It wasn’t until they arrived at the address, Alta Mesa Memorial Park, that he understood her mission.
“Yes, I want to put these on my husband’s grave,” Dooley said the woman told him. It had been a year since he’d died. Her son was buried there, too. So Dooley helped find the grave and divide the flowers for her husband’s and son’s headstones. He also poured in the packet of flower freshener for the water.
“She said, ‘You’re just an angel,’ but I said, ‘Not always.’ ”
Growing demand
As the county ages, services like the Road Runners or Santa Clara’s “Heart of the Valley,” among others, will only see more demand.
Back when Dooley was recruited by an ex-Navy man who has since passed on, the Road Runners operated out of a trailer and two men could handle the 25 or so runs in a single day. Now they have eight cars and 35 drivers, and more are needed to cover the 10-mile radius around the hospital.
He shows off his 10,000-hour service pin, and his newest one, an 11,000-hour pin. And according to his calculations (about 15 miles for every hour of service), he’s logged about 166,000 miles. All those hours means he knows every hospital, outpatient clinic and hot lunch site for miles. (”All the retirement homes, mobile home parks, physical therapy places, too.”)
Straight-backed and tall, Dooley’s still pretty fit. And once a week, he still checks the fluid levels of all the vehicles. But does he think about a time when he might be using Road Runners himself?
“Oh yeah, I can see it coming,” he said. Then, he quipped: “I just wonder if they’ll charge me?”
IF YOU’RE INTERESTED
Call (650) 940-7016 to volunteer or seek Road Runners’ service.